Upset...In School... desperate... Need some advice...
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Think u r a scapegoat, dun do the project work 4 him lah, he no brain ah? He can do himself, just stay up 4 e night and finish his work lah
See if you can apologise 2 him, if cannot, cut the line between u two, since he's the one not giving in.
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Originally posted by ---Max---:
I feel so sad... even people in forum are asking me to get the fuck out of here... LOL
But thank you for you reply, rest assured I will not keep posting and request other to come here to help me with my post.
I am new here and to clarify with you issue, I am not the clone you people are refering to.
Lastly and finally, one last thank you to all your comment and reply even if it is not very nice or pleasant, I really appreciate them.
Clones never admit to being clones but i still believe you are not that clone since you show much better manners and you don't whine the way he does though as a 14 yr old, he stays where 14 year olds should stay and not go into adult forums like you. :p
If you have genuine problems and ask them 'politely', most will help, some will crap thats normal of a forum and by posting, you need to accept it. However do not spam since thats damn irritating and accept the fact that everyone of us have our own lives and don't 24/7 standby to help or advice people.
Good luck in solving your problem with your friend. It isn't too big a problem i feel and as long as you are sincere and willing to change, you should be able to do it.
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go find another friend
loser
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get a life
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good job max. At 14, I can see you are a team player. You are not the type who treads the moral high ground and decide to shun ur fren.
Frankly speaking, ur petty fren is bloody fucked up man. But u need his presence for ur project for god knows what reason.
Ok anyway, may i suggest that you continue to be nice to him. Say hi to him when he ignores u. Use reverse psychology all the time and someday, he will melt again to u.
Cheers and gd luck.
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find another group of frens if u can... frens tht rely on u to do their homework for them are nt really gd... they may be trying to make use of u only for ur brainpower while they use eyepower
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hello ts,
my advice for u is this......just relax, wait and observe.
u see your friend is pissed and i think the best is to leave him alone at the moment. for the time being just relax....
for how long he will angry i dont know, that is why u need to wait and observe...
wait for him to cool down and then try talking to him again but remember not to bring up this incident again and just leave it behind.
when he cool down and wanna talk to u again that is the time u rebuild the friendship. ask him go makan together.
remember, next time be careful with word and dont anyhow shoot out and pissed him again.
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Originally posted by ---Max---:
Thank you brainerror your advise is appreciated, goe the same for youyayu. Indeed I really regretted what I had done and yes, brainerror you are right firstly, I should not have make a copy of my work for them but I hope as a 14 years old guy and not very popular in class I realised that if I lend them a work to copy, they will kind of talk to me so thats why I lend them my work or make a copy of them. But then, I shouldn't have lend them in the first place and I will try to avoid it. Thank you
But the most important question is how do I actually regain a friendship with that guy?
I appreciate ANY of the advise posted on this topic.
well, i dont think its best to regain your friendship with him, IF they are called your friend. they will not be wearing a mask and start being nice to sweet talk you and... copy your work or perharps the other way around -.-
you're a guy, you can definitely find better friends. -
Originally posted by brainerror:
well, i dont think its best to regain your friendship with him, IF they are called your friend. they will not be wearing a mask and start being nice to sweet talk you and... copy your work or perharps the other way around -.-
you're a guy, you can definitely find better friends.方以類�，物以群分 - 易�
Affairs are arranged together according to their tendencies, and things are divided according to their classes. – I Ching, book of changes
Same gang group together.....
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Originally posted by brainerror:
well, i dont think its best to regain your friendship with him, IF they are called your friend. they will not be wearing a mask and start being nice to sweet talk you and... copy your work or perharps the other way around -.-
you're a guy, you can definitely find better friends.simi la
guy can find, girl cannot find meh
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Why do you even bother to work on a project with a guy who don't even bother to do his own homework? Will he contribute to the project? if he don't, i think you would be better off wrking on a project alone. I believe if you tell your teacher, he/she will either find u another group or let you work alone.
sometimes, its ok to be a lone ranger. you won't be bother by this kind of friendship problem & able to concentrate on on your own studies better.
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open your mouth and apologise, buy him a drink from the canteen or something